We read several books each day and coming from a house filled with books it is very difficult to imagine a life without reading, a childhood without stories, no snuggling cuddles under favourite blankets with a good book. As a teacher I met parents who could not read or write and it made me appreciate being able to read even more to see their stunned joy when their own child is able to read well and enjoy reading. Reading is so important and sharing stories is a wonderful way to spend time with family. Reading is also free if you make use of your local library. If you or your children aren’t members of your local library go along and get your library card and make a visit to the library part of your week. Use these wonderful places, as if you don’t they will disappear, as many already have done.
Tips for Reluctant Readers
If you think your child is a reluctant reader don’t panic! There are lots of things you can do to encourage a love of reading:
- If your child is reluctant to read, or listen to you reading, don’t make it a chore or something they have to do. Stay relaxed, reading should be enjoyable and fun, not a battleground.
- When you read together make it special. Make sure you turn off the television or the radio and put your mobile phone down. Snuggle under a favourite blanket or make some hot chocolate. Make the time when you are reading for enjoyment cosy, relaxed and inviting.
- If your child is at school and has reading homework try and make sure that isn’t the only reading that you do together. Have another book/magazine/paper/comic on the go, that your child has chosen just for you to read together, for fun!
- Have a look around your home. Are there some lovely children’s books lying in amongst your kids toys? Can your kids access books that they might want to read? Make sure your kids have the ability to easily pick up books around the house.
- Let your child choose what they want to read, or you to read to them. If they only want to read comics, non-fiction, or the sports pages of the newspaper then encourage it, all reading is good reading.
- When your child chooses a book and you have already read ‘that one’ one hundred times before, don’t begrudge reading it again. Children love repetition and returning to stories they know well.
- Be an example to your kids. Have they ever seen you sitting down and reading a book? Even if it is for just five minutes a week, try and make a time when you sit down and just read. Show your kids that you are a reader.
- If you think that your child isn’t interested in books sit down with one of your favourite picture or story books from your childhood. Read your favourite books and laugh, point and smile. One day they might sidle up next to you whilst you are having such a great time reading and ask you to read it to them.
- Don’t stop reading to your kids. Whether your kids are babies, toddlers, children or tweens. As a teacher I always read to my classes (even 10 and 11 year olds) and it was a part of the day everyone always enjoyed. Bedtime stories don’t need to end and reading a chapter book together can really motivate your kids to move on in their own independent reading.
- If your child just can’t sit down to read then make reading part of your day-to-day activities. Read a recipe together, go on a scavenger hunt where some or all the clues are written, play with words and letter - make letters out of play dough, draw them in sand, make them out of sticks… the possibilities are endless.
Carolin says
I’m in We love reading and this is a challenge that I can see myself completing with Amy x
Kirsty says
Fantastic! I have so many I want to share with the little one that it has been tricky deciding! Thanks for joining in
Anya from Older Single Mum and The Healer says
My kids love reading, something I’ve concentrated on instilling, It sets them up for a happy and confident life, I believe. Although it drives me mad that they want the same book every night for weeks, it does a breed that love!
Anya from Older Single Mum and The Healer recently posted…Who Rocks Your Socks?
Laura (@Chez Mummy) says
This is a really lovely idea. I will try to join in whenever I can, especially with our reading list for this year. Great tips for reluctant readers too
Laura ( recently posted…Our reading list for 2014
Jayne says
I love this post and the idea; Sausage is really into reading at the moment, she’ll read pretty much anything she can get her hands on so we’ll definitely be joining in!
Jayne recently posted…Role Models for Girls
Mari says
LOVE this as we are huge readers in this house and the girls have learnt so well, we read every night, we’re currently on the Faraway Tree by Enid Blyton, it takes me back to my childhood and they are loving it as much as I did. PLUS daddy always joins us too as he never read it. Definitely joining in most likely via Instagram too 😉
See you there
Mari recently posted…Feeding squirrels in Danson park
Boo Roo and Tigger Too says
Thank you for sharing your wondreful tips, Roo has always been happy to sit down and listen to a book whereas Tigger is not as keen/
Boo Roo and Tigger Too recently posted…Tips for encouraging children to eat at the dinner table
Emma says
Lots of fabulous tips there Kirsty! Will be sharing this!
Kirsty says
Thank you Emma, there are lots of ways you can get kids reading but I think, most importantly, just let them read their choice of material and encourage and encourage
Pinkoddy says
This is a really good idea, my little boy does get fixated with the same story.
Pinkoddy recently posted…Chinese New Year Horse
Coombemill says
I love the idea of not just battling with the school books