Only One You by Linda Kranz is inspirational. It is a book that I would love to see on a shelf in every home. The messages within are important and just as valid for adults as they are for children. It is also full of colour and it feels like a celebration of life.
Reading Only One You with Burt has been such a fantastic experience. Every page has prompted lots of questions and thoughts and discussion, so much so that I am sure this book will continue to be read in our home for years to come. I love the first and last pages, which are covered in positive affirmations and imperatives.
The story begins with Papa and Mama and their child Adri. Papa and Mama agree that it is time to share some wisdom with Adri, before he goes out into the world. This prompted the first question from Burt, “What is wisdom?” What a great question for a 2 year old to ponder!
As you read the book take a good look at Papa and Mama fish. What do you notice about each fish? What patterns or shapes can you see? Mama has a heart and Papa has a sun pattern. On every page there is one or both of Mama and Papa, so you can keep young children engaged by also searching for Mama and Papa in the illustrations.
The wisdom Papa and Mama impart through the story is beautiful and you could easily spend hours just thinking about each page. Although there are few words, those words have great significance and helped me to think about the life lessons and ‘wisdom’ I would like Burt to consider as he grows up.
Always be on the look out for a new friend.
Find your own way. You don’t have to follow the crowd.
Set aside some quiet time to relax and reflect. Every day.
In time I would like to write my own words of wisdom for Burt, or we could even write some together and that would be a lovely project to work on if you have older children.
The story ends with such powerful words…
There’s only one you in this great big world. Make it a better place.
Making the world a better place is a huge concept but breaking it down into words of wisdom makes it easier to think about and hopefully put into practice!
Talk about
Only One You is full of discussion points but the main theme of our discussion has been what we think a good friend is like and how we can be more like that person. For young children in particular it helps to focus on an ‘ideal person’ and to think about their qualities rather than to think about abstract concepts.
Here are some ideas or questions that you might want to use to start a discussion in your family. You know your family and which questions they are ready to tackle now and which can be left for another day:
- What is wisdom?
- Do you know anyone who is wise?
- How could you become wiser?
- Who are your friends?
- What do friends do together?
- How can you be a good friend?
- When might it not be a good idea to follow your friends or the crowd?
- Sometimes a friend might ask you to do something that you don’t agree with, or something that you know is wrong. What would you do in this situation?
- Can a smile really make the world a better place?
- How can you make the world a better place?
You could also use the book as a starting point to think about beauty, what it is and where you might find it. You could also use Only One You to think about relaxation and reflection, how to relax and what you hear if you are quiet and you really listen.
Crafts and activities for kids
Only One You is illustrated with pictures of painted stones, so after we read the book we made our own painted stones. It was a fantastic activity. Choosing the right stones was a lovely, tactile activity and then Burt enjoyed washing them with lots of soap and bubbles! Painting inspired even more conversation and then we picked some of our favourite phrases and I wrote them on the bottom of the stones, along with the date. We also cut out hearts and wrote our favourite affirmations on them and stuck them on the walls.
Have a look at the Pinterest Board full of crafts and activities for kids…
Or take a look at these activities to accompany reading the book:
- Read and Create painted stones
- Skip to My Lou hearts to tell your kids why they are wonderful
- Deep Space Sparkle primary and secondary colours
- Mary Making painted fish
- There’s a Dragon In My Art Room fish with tissue paper tails
What have you been reading this week?
Liz Burton says
Wow this sounds like an amazing book!
I love all the positive messages there. Thanks for sharing.
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Kirsty says
It is so wonderful to read with kids. Look out for it x
otilia says
Another amazing book! I love discovering books on your blog! pinned!
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Kirsty says
Thanks Otilia x
Donna @ Little Lilypad Co says
Wow! Loving the messages in this book! I clearly need it on our bookshelf
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Helen says
Sounds brilliant. I’ll definitely be buying this. Thanks for highlighting it!
Kirsty says
You will love it Helen! Let me know what you think x
Mammasaurus says
Ahhhh I love the positive affirmations in it - so nice to find a book that really touches you and you love x
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ninja cat says
What a brilliant book , my reception class would love this.
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Bek says
That looks like a very positive book! Thanks for sharing x.
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Kate Williams says
This book looks fantastic, love how they’ve put such positivity into it
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Mummy of Two says
That looks like a great book. So much to chat about!
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maggy, red ted art says
Awww what a seriously ADORABLE book!
Sonya Cisco says
Ooh what a gorgeous book, love it’s positivity!
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Eileen Teo says
Love how you expand your book review! It is always good to read your tips!
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Emma (My Little 3 and Me) says
What a lovely book review. you’ve made really useful observations. It’s not a book I’ve heard of before but I’ll keep an eye out for it.
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anna says
Love the look of this! You always seem to pick out some great books! I had never heard of this
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VaiChin says
Sounds like an amazing book. Full of inspiration for days when you are looking for something to uplifting. Thanks for sharing.
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natalie says
love the little sayings in this book, will have to buy it i think
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Sarah Bailey says
What a sweet sounding book - i love how it seems to have so many different elements to it. x
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Laura Halls says
looks like a great positive book
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Laura @ Kneadwhine says
What a great book - great messages too! I shall look out for it!
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Orli D says
What a lovely book with an amazing and important message. My boys would love it.
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Jenny says
What a fab book, thanks for the recommendation.
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Astrid says
This sounds like a great book to teach life lessons to children. I do get inspired through yoru book reviews. Maybe soem of these books come in electronic formats too so that I can read them.
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Nikki Thomas says
That looks like a really beautiful book, really interesting and thought provoking. I love books like this and I am definitely going to to invest in this for my daughter. Thank you.
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Kirsty says
So glad that it will appear on your bookshelves too now Nikki. I hope you love it as much as I do x
Vicky says
What a great book with such an important message. I absolutely love your picks x
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Nayna Kanabar (@SIMPLYF00D) says
Sounds like a great read for the kids.
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Emmys Mummy says
Sounds wonderful. Definitely good to give children positive messages through story telling
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Foz says
I am always on the look out for good books and this certainly sounds like one.
Will add it onto my list to buy!
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Mari says
I LOVE this book and have just ordered it too. Thanks for the inspiration as always
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Boo Roo and Tigger Too says
What an amazing book, really loving the positive words included on the cover
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Carolin says
What a beautiful book. I love the colourful illustrations. They’re a real eye-catcher. I also just caught myself looking out for Mama and Papa 😉
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Dobs says
What a lovely post and a lovely inspiring book (which I am now going to buy for the boys if I can). But most of all reading this makes me think what an amazing mum you are x
Kirsty says
Thank you.
Stephs Two Girls says
wow, thanks for this brilliant review, so glad I caught your pic on Instagram just now! Have already ordered this, and the follow up book and can’t wait for them to arrive now. Sounds like THE best message
Lesley says
This book looks fabulous let alone the great message.
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